You might know your cherish expression, how you are in a relationship, and perhaps the lane you attach( or detach) yourself to your person, but what about your affection mode?
There are 6 styles of passion- Agape, Eros, Ludus, Mania, Pragma, or Storge.
Every person( and every zodiac sign !) has a different mode that matches the mode they love.
For example, as a Virgo, I know I fit Agape, Eros and Mania. My ex-boyfriend( a Cancer) fits Mania and Ludus. Every person has more than one mode, but there’s always one that we identify with the most.
If you express unconditional cherish for your collaborator and is less than willing to put your partner’s necessitates before your own, you identify with the Agape style. You are a altruistic buff. You’re giving and caring and you’re willing to do that as long as you get that care and appreciation in return.
As a Virgo , you tend to put your partner’s necessities before your own and you’ll do whatever it takes to do that because you’re such a perfectionist. As a Libra , though you have doubts that you might be doing too much or not enough, when you lastly find that balance, you affection hard-handed and you present your romantic side well.
When we firstly get into such relationships, we typically find ourselves in the “honeymoon” theatre where things are intense and we are completely head over heels. If you feel like your nature is to be very passionate in love and you’re aggressively anticipating the next step in the relationship( emotional or physical) you might be the Eros type.
Hey ,< strong> Aries . Adore at first sight? Yep. That’s your thing. You are passionate and expressive and the flare of enjoy never leads out. Your affection might seem too intense for some people but hey, that’s you.
To those who fit this style, desire is a game and they intend on acquiring it. These people favor physical attraction more so than compatibility and commitment. Casual hookup and friends with advantages are their thing. They tend to be somewhat emotionally remote. Passions? I don’t know her.
If you’re a Sagittarius , you know that casual hookups are more ideal for you because each new person is a new undertaking- a new competition, virtually. If you’re a Scorpio , though you aren’t necessarily malicious, you still enjoy revenge and there are things “youve never” forget. Maybe that’s why relationships aren’t inevitably your strong suit.
“Obsessive” isn’t the right term, but it’s kinda like that. These people are emotionally dependent and perpetually need reassurance and with that, they tend to get resentful very easily. They exactly want to feel procure in their relationships and that’s completely understandable.
As a Cancer , you like affection- generating and receiving- because it feels reassuring. Your romantic line-up comes out when you show people how severely you need them. As a Pisces , you tend to be moderately sensitive, and so you feel the highs and the lows of such relationships pretty intensely and the word “obsessive” fits you well. As a Taurus, you crave reassurance; you only want to affection and be loved and feel some sort of consolation with someone.
Practicality and logic are your two most special friend. You tend to use reason to make decisions and “youre using” reason to see the conformity in person or persons. I’m not saying that you’re emotionless, but your relationships are more dependent on the practical back of things rather than the romantic side.
If you’re a Gemini , you tend to lead with your intelligence more so than with your heart. You think of your relationships as something practical, and if it’s not, you wonder how you are able to make it that way. If you’re a Capricorn, you know that sometimes it takes time for you to open up and testify enjoy, but once you do, you’re all in.
The important thing in a relationship are trust, intimacy and confederation. The people who fit this style like closeness and they like being committed to someone. Friendships in relationships are ideal and if possible, they like to be friends with their partner first.
As a Leo, you’re very loyal and you have a big heart( whether or not you evidence it …) and that’s why friendship before or in a relationship is so important to you. As a prudent Aquarius, it is in your nature to want a lifestyle that challenges you. You know that a partnership is the perfect thing.